Looking for love? Here is one easy way to find it immediately -
Flirt with EVERYONE!
Yes, I do literally mean everyone - the man who makes your coffee, the woman who rang you up at Trader Joe’s, that cute guy, that not-so-cute guy, your grandmother, your co-workers, your friends, children, puppies… everyone. Flirting with everyone is non-sexual way to enjoy life!
Flirting with Life is different than picking someone up at a bar...
No sexual jokes and winks!
Do NOT flirt that way!
Let’s break down what Flirting means and looks like -
Flirting is an artform of intimate communication and it has 3 basic qualities.
- Give your full attention - eye contact and active listening
- Make people feel special, compliments and genuine interest
- Have fun! The most important part, relax, joke around, and open your heart.
There is a powerful, exciting, sexual energy inside us that we can learn to use in a non-sexual way.
Flirting with Life is what you should do with everyone, everywhere, anytime!
There is an energy storage in your body that is used for creating life, literally carrying the potential to make a new human. Sexual energy comes with an excitement and intensity that we all know well, and it can be used for expressions other than a physical act of sex. The same excitement that you have when you meet someone you are sexually interested in, what if you put that feeling into everyone you came in contacted with? Everyone could be your new best friend! Everyone sees you as special, and you see them as special.
Find intimacy and community in small ways.
As humans, we are biologically motivated to seek pleasure. We can reprogram ourselves to value pleasure of emotional intimacy over physical intimacy. This shift in motivation will help to see the opportunities for connecting with people all around! Give and ask in return a smile, eye contact, kind works, and a little time.
How can I start to Flirt with Life?
Everyone wants to be noticed. Everyone wants to be acknowledged.
It can be simple, short and sweet -
“I’m noticing you and I am paying attention. You, as a person, or what you are doing is unique and I appreciate it. Let’s share some short time together in this very moment. Yes? Great! No? Bye.”
I challenge you to try the Flirting with Life technique today, and again tomorrow. Simply give each person you meet your full attention, and intend to have a quality conversation. Try it once a day, until you are doing it automatically every day to everyone you see!
Things will start to change.
You might find yourself living in an alternate reality - a new world that is kind. Albert Einstein said - "The most important decision we make is whether we believe we live in a friendly or hostile universe.”
You make that decision by the way you interact with the world around you.
So flirt, play, and be present.
Peace, Love, Sat Nam!
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